Using the Library with Littles by Kacie of Sense to Save

Kacie is a blogging friend who writes at Sense to Save. Her kids are about the same ages as mine, so we’ve exchanged many e-mails and questions over the last 5 years! 

Nothing Like Relaxing with a Good Book

Ever have to wrestle a screaming toddler and march said child past a “quiet zone” in the library right out the door, leaving empty-handed? Oh, I might have done that a few times. After some frustrating and stressful trips, I reevaluated how we handle the library at this stage of life.

My children adore books, and I get such a kick out of reading to them. We try to own plenty of quality titles, but as our money and our bookshelves are limited, we use the library as often as we can. I have a few ways of streamlining the library process.

My kids are at an age and temperament where trips to the library might go well, or they might be a disaster. My solution? They don’t go with me very often. When we all go together, I try to already have a stack of books waiting on the hold shelf. I grab those first and then add whichever books strike our fancy as we browse. The kids like to play computer games, do puzzles, or play with the blocks while we browse and read a few stories together. But we’re always ready to jet at a moment’s notice if need be. If I can swing it, I’ll take just my older child and let my daughter have some playtime at home with Daddy. When she gets a little more library-mature, we can do trips together.

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source: The Greenery Nursery

My library allows me to save booklists in my online account. I use this feature to help keep track of titles we’d like to read together at some point and to quickly place them on hold later. I have many lists–titles just for me, and also titles broken down by age range or source.

I borrowed Honey for a Child’s Heart and added many of their book selections to my online booklist. Of course, my library doesn’t carry all suggested titles. Other book list sources include titles from the Sonlight, Peak With Books, Five in a Row, and My Father’s World homeschool curricula.

A few days ahead of a solo or group library excursion, I’ll look at my list and place 10-15 or so titles on hold.

We’ll add another 15ish titles from shelf-browsing, and we’ll be set for a few weeks. The ones we liked will be read a few times.

I do like wandering the shelves to see what I can find, besides just using the online search catalog. I’ve found many great books this way–ones not on any list but enjoyable just the same.

All of our library books, when not in use, live in a designated bag in a closet that the kids cannot open. I’d rather not pay for lost books, so it’s better for us to just keep them inaccessible until they’re a little older.

My kids have a Shelfari account that I use to keep track of books that we own, and library favorites that we’ll want to read again someday (or eventually buy). I don’t update this  with all of our library titles as that would be too time-consuming, but I did activate a feature on our online library account that keeps track of titles we’ve checked out, so I can look that over if I ever had the urge.

Lastly, I’m trying to take advantage of the library’s online resources. Ours has several:

Freegal, a music download service, which allows me to download (and keep!) three mp3 files per week. For free! I am slowly adding to our music collection this way. I have a weekly reminder set in my Google calendar so I won’t forget. Three tracks per week is 156 per year in my permenant collection — can’t beat that.

Ebooks! I love that I can borrow an ebook without setting foot in the library. My branch’s e-collection is gradually growing. Right now, I’m only spotting some titles that are still a bit advanced for my kids, but their day is coming when I can read titles straight from my Kindle or phone.

Audiobooks are another option we can snag in-person or online, but right now they aren’t into that format. They prefer a live person reading to them.

My library recently added Zinio, a site that lets patrons read magazines online or on their mobile device. My library’s selection only includes titles for adults at the moment.

I love the resources in the library and I hope it helps instill a life-long love of reading.

How do you use the library with your little ones?

Kacie is a 27-year-old mom to a 4-year-old boy just a few months younger than Jessie’s Libbie, and a 2-year-old girl just 3 days older than Jessie’s David. Jessie’s 3rd child came in March, and Kacie’s is coming sometime in late September/early October. She blogs about money at Sensetosave.com.

Look, Ma, We DID Something.

I’m really not a very good mom when I’m pregnant, which is half the reason I’m more-than-hesitant about saying I’ll ever do this again. I’m pretty sure I’m done with pregnancy after March … although you never know.

And parenting when I’m 7 months pregnant AND my back has totally spazzed out? Basically does not happen.

Which is why I was pretty proud that yesterday morning I managed to DO something with the kids.

We started out painting polar bears, an idea I got from Keeping Life Creative. I actually let David paint, which I don’t usually do. I asked the kids whether they wanted brown bears or white bears, and they both chose white, so voila, we had two polar bears.

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(I did all the cutting and gluing, although Libbie drew her own face.)

Then, after we talked a little bit about how polar bears live in Antarctica and how humans can’t really live there, we watched two YouTube videos about the arctic. (NOT the ones titled “Polar Bear Eats Baby Seal.”

Had it not been Martin Luther King, Jr. day, I would have taken them to the library to explore books on polar bears and Antarctica. But since it was, I went by myself today (Tuesday) while they are in school and asked the children’s librarian for some suggestions. Here are the books we checked out to explore:

I love having my little ones at home and having the freedom to have these sort-of-mini-homeschool units to let them explore what they find interesting. I think next we’ll make Toilet Paper Roll Penguins!

 

 

[please Pin this craft from the original source]

What other fun arctic-y things could we do?

The Lazy Mom’s Dinosaur Week for Little Ones

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Inspired by JessieLeigh’s awesome summer “camps” with her kids last year, I decided this year I’d better make some plans for Libbie. That child is go-go-go; she does not like staying still and she loves every type of craft and activity. Right now she’s craving an extra helping of one-on-one time with Mommy or Daddy, too.

So for the last few months I’ve been Pinning ideas for activities we could do together. Some are well within my abilities, while others (dinosaur terrarium?) look cool but are just too difficult for me to get together.

Here’s what we actually did last week and some of our favorite dinosaur books. You can see more ideas (some more ambitious) on my Dinosaur Camp Pinterest board.

We started off by breaking the dinosaurs out of their dollar-store packaging and giving them a bath outside. Armed with a pitcher of water, a bottle of baby shampoo, and some washcloths, Libbie happily splashed for half an hour.

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We made these No Time for Flashcards-inspired cardboard stegosauri out of cereal boxes. The kids colored theirs and Libbie glued on the eyes. (We both helped David color a little, as shown above.) Then Lib (3.5) painted all the clothespins for the spikes and I cut out the dinosaurs.

Starting one morning, I froze dinosaurs in layers in a bowl of water (froze some dinos in water, then added more water and dinos so they wouldn’t all float to the top). Libbie then splashed in the bath in her swimming suit and “excavated” the dinosaurs from their apparent ice age habitat. She had a blast and then gave them all a bath again in “a million dillion bubbles.” (Yeah, there’s an elephant in there, too. Maybe a wooly mammoth?)

One day post-nap, I set Libbie up with several sheets from this dinosaur tot pack, crayons, markers, a pen, and a snack of pretzels and dinosaur gummies (a RARE treat in our house). She thought the one-on-one Mommy time was divine, and loved tracing the paths for the dinos to get to the volcanos.

We checked out a BUNCH of dinosaur books from the library; here are our favorites.

There are a few more activities I want to do (dinosaur sock puppets, painting, and maybe a trip to the children’s museum to dig for bones) and then we’re on to Ocean Camp!

Do you plan your summer or just go with the flow?

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Celebrating Holy Week with Toddlers & Preschoolers: Day 2, Anointing and Passover

See day 1 here: Palm Sunday / Hosanna!

Day 2: Jesus anointed / prepares for the Last Supper

Note: The anointing of Jesus’ feet by Mary of Bethany actually happened before Palm Sunday.

Read Jesus’ anointing from The Jesus Storybook Bible

Color pictures in The Gigantic Coloring Book of Bible Stories

Make reed diffusers to place around the apartment

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Make matzah

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Talk about Passover, why it was celebrated, read Exodus story from children’s Bible

Do Easter egg hunt where one of the eggs has a piece of matzah in it. Parallel breaking bread to breaking of Christ’s body. Whoever finds the matzah egg gets a quarter for their piggy bank!

If more time: make salt dough and let kids play with it, “making bread”

Anointing/Passover Playlist

(yes, this is a lot more random than yesterday’s, but the topic was a little more difficult!)

Celebrating Holy Week with Toddlers and Preschoolers: Day 1, Palm Sunday

My kids are on “Spring Break” this week from their Mother’s Day Out program. The public schools are out, too, but my husband’s private school was on break two weeks ago.

What does that mean for us? Playgrounds and museums are going to be uber-crowded, and I will be home alone with my kids all week.

I have a difficult time functioning without a plan; I am not the kind of mom who can put crafts together on the fly, usually. So here I am outlining my plans to celebrate Holy Week with my kiddos (a 3.5-year-old and a 15-month-old). Libbie (3) and I may do a lot of this while David is asleep, honestly, because he is just not old enough to do crafts yet. I will do my best to have him listen to storytime!

Palm Sunday: Hosanna
source: entheos

Monday: Hosanna! / Palm Sunday

“Jesus Enters Jerusalem” pictures from The Gigantic Coloring Book of Bible Stories

Read from the Jesus Storybook Bible (Libbie)

“Jesus Rides a Donkey” from The LullaBible Storybook (David)

Make Palm Palms and Dance!

 

Hosanna Playlist:



Are you doing anything to celebrate Jesus with your kids this week?

Valentine’s Ideas for the Time, Money, or Motivation-Crunched

You know I wanted to call this Valentines for the LAZY mom, right? But if you were really lazy, you’d buy a pack of Spiderman cards and hand them out. Not that I am blaming you if you do. I did that when they made me do Valentine’s from my three-month-old at her daycare.

But now, at 3 YEARS old (sob! wah!), Libbie likes to do crafts and I felt a little more motivated. Especially when I woke up this morning able to move up and down and sit again after the lovely back trauma of the past few days.

So maybe you’re like me and you want to put a little – but not a LOT – of effort into your kids’ Valentines to their little school buddies. Here’s what we did this year.


For David, I made crayon hearts. Jill led me to this Pin:

Source: flickr.com via Jill on Pinterest

 

Being me, I just tossed my crayons in a plastic baggie and added a little note. The hardest part was unwrapping all the crayons! My note had Matthew 5:14 from The Message translation on it:

“You’re here to be light, bringing out the God-colors in the world. God is not a secret to be kept.”

My advice would be to try to shake your heart mold as little as possible so that the colors stay somewhat separate. I would also toss out all the black and brown crayons. A lot of mine ran together, especially on the bottoms, leaving a brown mess. You’ll notice the person on the Pin only used brightly colored crayons.

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Together, Libbie and I made heart-shape mice that were super easy. I cut out all the hearts for the bodies and ears. (I used old scrapbook paper from when I used to scrapbook. You know, back in 1999.) I added glue for her to stick on the eyes, ears, and tail. I hot-glued the pom-poms on for noses; and inside each mouse I wrote to: Whoever from: Libbie.

They took us maybe an hour total with the cutting, and Libbie loved helping make her “Balentines.” She wanted to know if the other kids were going to give her mices, too.

So there you have our somewhat-lazy Valentines. Are you a homemade-kinda mom, a store-bought card mom, a personalized gift bag for every kid mom? (There is one of those last types in Libbie’s class. It always makes me feel lame … and yet more sane.)

I feel like I need to say that my motto for parenthood is DO WHATEVER KEEPS YOU SANE. This year, I felt like I had the energy to make Valentines. Some years, not a chance. You should have seen the ridiculously ugly cupcakes I sent for Libbie’s birthday this year. We’re talking leftovers from every tube of old frosting I had laying around. (And that over-the-top mom? Brought pizza for all the kids that same day. For no reason. Argh.) So if you needed to buy cards this year, NO SHAME. If you wanted to hand-make doilies, YOU GO GIRL. The world needs all kinds of parents.

Grace Upon Grace

I’m trying to remember today that there won’t always be doctor-treasure-chest toys in the dryer.

No, they won’t be nestled there alongside lint and an empty food pouch. There won’t be a trillion chocolate cheerios decorating my kitchen floor. There won’t be Sid the Science Kid and Caillou, and I never ever will speak the name Elmo unless it is my choice.

There won’t be moldy sippy cups full of old milk, midnight dirty diapers, and inexplicable wailing. (Except, perhaps, from me.)

But there won’t be baby babbles and giggles. There won’t be blonde ringlets to pet and smooth, teeth bumps to soothe with Orajel and wooden rings, or awe over a cracker spread with peanut butter.

For some reason the last few days have been nearly unbearable with the three-year-old. The refusal to cooperate with Mommy and Daddy in any fashion has eaten me to the core. I’ve cried buckets … mostly where she can’t see me dissolve.

I’ve been meandering my way through One Thousand Gifts, and today I forced myself to open my journal back up after a week’s dust had settled on it. Firmly, with pen, I write

#48 a green plastic ring in the dryer

and then I remember the rest of the day’s blessings:

cheeks full of apple and happy baby drool

David so pleased with himself as he waves bye-bye

Libbie’s book-love …

He made it all; He gave it all; it is all good.

Nature vs. Nurture, Princesses, and Old Pictures That Make Me Want to Cry

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Halloween 2010

Libbie’s favorite Disney movie is Jingle and the Lion Beast.

What, you don’t know that one?

It all started last Christmas, right before David was born. My mom brought Libbie a copy of Beauty and the Beast, a Belle doll, and a few other related items. Libbie carried them around and after a while came back and asked, “Where my Jingle go?”

My mom, Mr. V, and I were all slightly befuddled. Her Jingle? HUH? One of us finally surmised that she meant the Belle doll. Being that it was the week before Christmas, Libbie had gotten well-acquainted with “Jingle Bells.” (So well, in fact, that she would sing “Jingle Bell, Jingle Bell, Jingle ALL THE WAY” repeatedly for an hour. Just those words.) Thus her only reference for “Belle” was “Jingle Bells.”


Belle has been Jingle in our house ever since. We don’t try to correct her, because it’s too cute. Someday she’ll learn. If you ask Libbie what Jingle’s full name is, she will tell you: Jingle Belle.

I never thought I would have a princess-obsessed daughter. Libbie’s never seemed like much of a girly-girl to me; she will always dress herself in jeans and a t-shirt, and frilly dresses just don’t seem to suit her. She’s an active kid, a little bit of a wild child, a running, flailing, screaming girl.

But by and by she’s become attached to those Disney princesses just like every other little prima donna. Seeing Cinderella’s castle at Disney World was a highlight of her short life. Meeting – and HUGGING – “Jingle” has been talked about in our house for the last five months.

She has wall decals, a Vtech game, dolls, movies, and books. And I continue to wonder … how did this happen? But loving pink and taking care of babies seems as ingrained in her as her blood type. She was patting her babies and putting them down for naps before David even came along. She can turn any scrap of fabric into a blankie, any oblong thing into a bottle. Just like David can turn anything he can hold in his fist into a ball.

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Libbie’s favorite “toy,” made into a baby bottle

Yet, I am still glad she will play with trains and cars with the best of them. I will let David cook alongside me just like his sister does. While I acknowledge their natural differences, I will nurture all sides of them.

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Truth in the Tinsel; Or, How Other People Plan My Crafts for Me


It’s both a relief and panic-inducing to me that Libbie is finally old enough to do craft-type things. I longed for her to be able to color, glue, and maybe even cut. And now that she can, I try to take advantage of it!

I’m not a crafty person myself, but thankfully I live in the era of Pinterest. We’ve done several creative things from there recently, including cloud dough and toilet-paper-roll turkeys!

I’m thankful to continue letting others plan my craft projects, and in December we’re undertaking a big one: learning about the nativity story by making an ornament every day.

Amanda (of OhAmanda and Impress Your Kids) is my oldest blogging friend. Her passion for teaching her children about Christ never fails to amaze me. And this year she’s put all her crafty energy and passion into Truth in the Tinsel: An Advent Experience for Little Hands.

I was thrilled to see how thorough each day’s experience is: Amanda provides a “clue” for the kids to discover in an advent calendar or on a paper chain, a Scripture to read together, questions to discuss, an ornament to make, and a further activity to do if you choose. There are also supply lists and recommendations for only doing selections from the 24 days of Advent.

The Truth in the Tinsel e-book is $4.99, but for Black Friday it’s $2.99! WOOHOO!

I sincerely hope you’ll take advatage of the opportunity to teach your child the importance of Christmas. I’ve read through Truth in the Tinsel and it’s so full of gospel truth, creativity, and love. I can’t wait to do it with Libbie and watch her grasp the Truth. And I’ll be sharing some of our projects on the Truth in the Tinsel Facebook page, so make sure you like it!

Yes, I will make a small affiliate fee if you buy through my link. If that bothers you, just type in TruthintheTinsel.com and buy it from there. But please DO IT! Cause this is an awesome resource.
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Spooked.

I am having a rotten day. I think the spooks have gotten into Libbie and perhaps me as well.

This is all I’ve got.

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