Read in 2012

1. Mockingjay by Suzanne Collins – This is the third installment in the Hunger Games trilogy. I have not talked to one person who wasn’t disappointed by it – but that’s not to say they didn’t race through all three books to see what happened. The trilogy is utterly readable, and yet I think it’s one where maybe the author only intended to write one book. Or she was rushed to write the second and third volumes. They are just not up to par with what she could have written. I would say only read the first book, but I think we all know that’s laughable. So just consider this your fair warning.

2. The Hipsters by Tim McAtee – I should probably write a long review of this. [You can see my Amazon review now, if you can figure out my full name.] First of all, because my cousin wrote the book. He’s trying to get funded to publish print copies, but through that link you can buy it for $3 on your Kindle (which is what I did). Secondly, because my opinion of the book is so conflicted and ultimately based on the fact that I am a middle-class, suburban, stay-at-home mom in Tennessee.

3. Life from Scratch by Melissa Ford (Stirrup Queens) – I had seen a blurb about this book somewhere and pinned it on my “want to read it” board. My note on the pinboard, however, was that the book was about someone learning to cook. Which is not at all what it’s about. The book is about a blogger who HAS learned to cook post-divorce and writes about it on her blog, Life from Scratch. The book follows her new success as a blogger and writer, as well as a new relationship, and the ups and downs of learning to be a divorcee in NYC. I was disappointed that the book skimmed over the part of the character’s life I thought I might find interesting, and yet, it was hard to put down. And definitely worth the $1 I paid for it for my Kindle (sorry, it’s 9 bucks now!).

4. The Sister Circle by Nancy Moser and Vonette Bright – This book was a Kindle gift from my mom. I don’t read as many light Christian books as I used to, but I almost always enjoy them if they’re not too predictable. Moser and Bright’s characters were fun to get to know, and I am glad there are sequels to this one!

5. The Birth Order Book by Dr. Kevin Leman – Leman is my favorite parenting author. He is funny but truthful, and not afraid to laugh at himself and share his parenting mistakes. This book talks about birth order and how it relates to personality and parenting. Very interesting and worth the read.

6. The Red Tent by Anita Diamant – A truly excellent book, even though if I think about it too hard it’s a little weird. But I find biblical retellings – and imaginings – very intriguing and interesting. This is at least the third or fourth time I’ve read this one.

7. One Bite at a Time by Tsh Oxenreider (Simple Mom) – Simple Mom’s ebook has 52 brief chapters, each containing one step you can take to simplify your life. I’m slowly adopting some of them in the hopes to be more intentional and less frazzled. It’s not easy, but Tsh makes sense, and I love how the book is laid out.

8. The 10 Best Decisions Every Parent Can Make by Bill and Pam Farrell – I’m forever searching for that book that will tell me how to parent toddlers and preschoolers. This isn’t it. But it is a super-intentional outline of ways to parent your kids up through their teenage years.

9. Foreign Correspondence by Geraldine Brooks – I’ve now read all of Brooks’ books except for Nine Parts of Desire … and I have loved every one. This one is a memoir of Brooks’ growing-up years, told through pen-pal letters and friendships with kids all over the world. As an adult, Brooks found the letters and took it upon herself to find all of her lost pen-pals. As with all of her books, this one is well-researched and documented, vivid, and makes me long to see, smell, and taste each part of the world she describes.

10. What She Doesn’t Know by Tina Wainscott – If I were one iota snottier about what I read, I would pretend I didn’t read this. It’s your basic romantic murder mystery, with Wainscott’s signature paranormal element thrown in. It was free for Kindle, I was flat on my back, and I liked reading it. (It’s still free as of 2/18/12.)

11. Dreams of Joy by Lisa See – I’ve wanted to read this sequel to Shanghai Girls since I finished the first book in August, and I finally got around to it when I realized I could “borrow” it from my library for free for my Kindle. Shanghai Girls gave the hard truth about Chinese life during the Japanese occupation, and Dreams of Joy portrays both Shanghai and the small countryside village during some of the large Communist campaigns. I stayed up until 2 a.m. to finish See’s tale, crying at how this was reality for so many in China. Lisa See is an accomplished historian and storytellers and I highly recommend her works.

12. Before You Know Kindness by Chris Bohjalian – Bohjalian has not failed me yet: I’ve found MidwivesSecrets of Eden, and now Before You Know Kindness all fascinating reads. BYKK is about an animal-rights activist who, while on vacation with his whole extended family in New Hampshire, is shot in the shoulder by his 12-year-old daughter. The novel outlines the family history, the accident, and what unfolds afterward in delicate language, unveiling thoughts from each family member. While I felt it lacked some of the punch of Midwives, I still think Bohjalian captures the voice of everyone from a 10-year-old girl in Vermont to a privileged, active grandmother dealing with the demise of her family relationships.

13. One Thousand Gifts by Ann Voskamp – I finally read Voskamp’s treatise on thankfulness. While I felt like some parts of it were a bit too heady for my tastes, I definitely appreciated her sentiments. Some parts were very moving. One I will hang on to and read again, I think!

14. Whispers of the Bayou by Mindy Starns Clark – I love love LOVE Clark’s series Smart Chick Mysteries. Clark takes basic Christian novels and turns it into something much better. In this mystery, Miranda lives life detached and consumed with work. A mysterious and persistent demand from an old acquaintance lures her back to her childhood home and plants her in the midst of an age-old scandal.

15. Always the Baker, Never the Bride by Sandra Brickman – Why yes, my current reading is dictated by what is free for Kindle. :) This is a light romance about a woman who bakes wedding cakes. She gets a job at a wedding hotel and while baking cake also bakes up some love. (Yes, cheesy, I know.) The book is actually a pretty fun read.

16-26. 16 Lighthouse Road204 Rosewood Lane311 Pelican Court, and right through the series by Debbie Maccomber – My mom gifted me the whole Debbie Maccomber Cedar Cove series for my Kindle, and in the weeks surrounding our friend’s suicide it was what my brain needed. I’m not much of a romance reader, but these are not *too* trashy or graphic.

27. Dark Water by Laura McNeal – Sometimes I get the idea that maybe I’ll be able to find the next Harry Potter or Hunger Games before anyone else. Well, this wasn’t it. Dark Water is touted as a Romeo and Juliet type romance between a modern-day California teenager whose father has recently walked out and one of her uncle’s Mexican migrant workers. While McNeal’s writing is very readable, I felt like some depth was missing. I just didn’t get the relationship between Amiel and Pearl. This is a rare case where I actually think it would make a better movie than book.

28. 3 Willows by Ann Brashares – 3 Willows is the kind of book that finds its way into my car’s CD player when I’m on a long trip with the kids. I go to the young adult section of the library and get an audiobook. This book is subtitled “the sisterhood grows,” and is by the same author of the Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants books. These girls are younger (just having finished 8th grade) and number just three. And at the beginning of the book, they’re slightly estranged. Each sets out on her own summer adventure and finds out just how much she needs her friends. Cute, simple.

29. This Book is Overdue: How Librarians and Cybrarians Can Save Us All by Marilyn Johnson – I also got this audiobook for the same trip … and learned that it would NOT work for when the kids were awake. Johnson’s language is tame, but she doesn’t filter out choice words in her interviews, thus making it inappropriate for kids in the car. Mary recommended this book and I liked it a lot, being the book nerd that I am. The chapter on Second Life almost lost me, but I kept on and especially enjoyed a chapter on archivists. It’s certainly not a light read, and one I’m glad I listened to rather than read it. If you’re at all interested in library science or the world behind the circulation desk, this one is for you!

30. What Happens When Women Say Yes to God by Lysa TerKeurst – My sister is a big Lysa TerKeurst fan, and I picked this up while at her apartment to thumb through. I ended up reading the first few chapters and couldn’t put it down. Ashley let me bring it home and read the rest. Lysa is so passionate and driven to radical obedience. Her writing it easy-to-read, humorous, and to the point: God desires our best. We should give it to Him. LOVED this one.

31. and 32. Goodness Gracious Green and The Glory of Green by Judy Christie – If you are one who looks for free Christian Kindle books, you’ve probably seen this series floating around. They often come up as free books (Abingdon Press is really great about offering free reads!). I had read the first in the series a few years ago, and snatched up the other four as they’ve become available. I love Green, I love Lois, I love these books. They are definitely worth the read!

33. Perfect Match by Jodi Picoult – I continue to read about one Picoult book a year. That’s about all I can handle! I find that her books are best read over a weekend in the biggest chunks possible. This one disgusted me, gave me nightmares, made me shaky … and yet I still couldn’t stop reading it. It’s about a defense attorney whose 5-year-old son is molested. I think the jacket called Picoult’s works “morally ambiguous crime mysteries,” and I couldn’t think of a better term.

34. and 35. Always the Wedding Planner, Never the Bride and Always the Designer, Never the Bride by Sandra Bricker – See #15

36. The Recipe Club by Andrea Israel and Nancy Garfinkel – I can’t remember where I read about this book, but at the time I thought it would be fascinating. Perhaps it was because of my half-written novel about a supper club. The Recipe Club is mostly episotlary - there are e-mails between the two main characters, Lilly and Valerie, as adults and then letters they wrote throughout their adolescence. Maybe the plots hit a little too close to home for me – one of the friends is concerned with being part of the in crowd and really only pays attention to her relationship with Valerie when she has lapses in her other friendships. While I found the book to be hard to put down, it mostly stirred up anger in me and I didn’t find it very satisfying to read.

37. By the Light of the Silvery Moon by Tricia Goyer – I’ve followed Tricia for a while on Twitter, and I saw her process as she published this book. I loved getting to read it! She’s a talented writer who is able to make believably Christian characters! This book is about characters on the Titanic, so of course there is sadness, class struggle, and fancy dinners … and a lot of hearts changed.

38. Clash of Civilizations Over an Elevator in Piazza Vittorio by Amara Lakhous – One of my husband’s students read this in English class and gave it to him when he or she was cleaning out their locker. Mr. V read it and then insisted I did, too. It’s a short book, translated from Italian, about an immigrant-full apartment complex in modern-day Rome and a murder that takes place there. Every other chapter is a testimony from one of the residents of the apartment, showing his or her cultural bias and interpretation of the everyday life in the complex. The chapters in-between are the accused murderer’s diary of sorts, giving glimpses of his relationship with each character and the truth. It’s an easy read, and although the ending is sort of clipped and easy, the complexities of the relationships and immigrant biases makes it a worthy read. The book won the prestigious Italian Flaiano Prize.

39. Speaking of Jesus: The Art of Not-Evangelism by Carl Medearis – See full review here.

40. Cure for the Common Life by Max Lucado – I’ve decided Lucado’s genius is that he is simply so Jesus-focused. Especially after reading Speaking of Jesus, I was stunned by how close Lucado stays to the Gospel, not straying to theologies and denominational structures. I think Cure for the Common Life is definitely worth a read. It really encouraged me in finding my “sweet spot” and reassuring me that God can use me through writing.

41. My Life in France by Julia Child and Alex Prud’homme – Probably my favorite book that I’ve read this year. What can you expect from a foodie who loves to read? I adored reading about Julia Child’s life as a wife in France, Germany, the Netherlands, and America and her journey to learn to cook. This honest tale gives the full story of her work of writing Mastering the Art of French Cooking (volumes 1 and 2) and her start as a TV chef. And the sweet love story between Paul and Julia gives you faith in true love!

42. Charlotte Figg Takes Over Paradise by Joyce Magnin - I picked this up because it’s often free for Kindle and I had read the first book in the series. It’s not really much of a series, though, although the stories take place around the same area. Anyway, this is great Christian fiction about a widow who moves to a trailer park and takes reign of its citizens. Very interesting, fun, and yet it has depth.

43. Griselda Takes Flight by Joyce Magnin – As soon as I finished Charlotte Figg, I wanted to read the next book in the series. Unfortunately, I found this one pretty disappointing compared to the first two in the series. And I can’t get past the awfulness of the name Griselda. Hehe.

44. Beneath the Night Tree by Nicole Baart – I read the first two books in Baart’s trilogy last year (After the Leaves Fall and Summer Snow - and read them in the right order, unlike me!). I find Baart’s writing so breathtaking that I think she could write a menu and it would make me cry. This third book in the trilogy takes place 5 years after the second; 23-year-old Julia is coming to terms with romance, how her uncommon family functions, and what to do when the father of her child wants back in his life. Baart’s works are SO worth the read.

45. Rally ‘Round Green by Judy Christie – This was the first of the Green books that I had a hard time getting into; but when I picked it up again after a few weeks, I zoomed through to the end. Once again, Lois is dealt problem after problems and learns how deep her faith in God and the town of Green can be.

46. Pearl in the Sand by Tessa Afshar – A retelling of the story of Rahab, this was a truly beautiful read with lots of truths about God as Father, Son, AND Holy Spirit! I thought Afshar did a beautiful job in explaining what might have happened to Rahab after the siege and fall of Jericho. I was awed by the truths about Jesus that existed in the regulations of the Israelites, hundreds of years before Christ.

47. City of Bones by Cassandra Clare – This is the first book in the Mortal Instruments series. They came highly recommended from a few friends. It’s no Harry Potter or Hunger Games, but the premise of demon-hunters living in a future America was interesting. I think I’ll probably read some of the sequels eventually.

48. Blame It on the Mistletoe by Joyce Magnin – Despite my above review of Griselda Takes Flight, I still picked up this sequel in the Bright’s Pond series (the last? Or just the last one she’s written?). A mystery has invaded Bright’s Pond, and suddenly the elderly are acting like children. Meanwhile, Griselda tries to figure out her romances, plan a parade, and produce the Christmas pageant at church. Who can resist some Christmas fun?

49-51. In BetweenOn the Loose, and The Big Picture by Jenny B. Jones – These three books are the Katie Parker Production series from Jones. I adored the series. Katie, even as a foster child who grew up with a druggie mother, is easy to relate to. As she’s introduced to church culture and what a loving – albeit slightly crazy – family is all about, her growth and failures are irresistible. I think I read each book in about a day, as fast as I could. I wish there were 12 books! 20!

52. 7: An Experimental Mutiny Against Excess by Jen Hatmaker – I think 7 deserves a post of its own, but for now … I can’t believe it took me so long to dive into to this one. I was honestly afraid to read it, but Jen’s conversational, diary-entry chapters were impossible to put down. Her lessons are mixed with humor and real life. I adored this book and think everyone should read it. Everyone.

53. Premiere by Melody Carlson

54-55. Heiress and Baroness by Susan May Warren – These are the first two in the Daughters of Fortune series by Warren. I know Mary said she liked them, but I had no idea HOW INCREDIBLY GOOD they would be! I’ve read books by Warren before that were pretty good, but these I absolutely could not put down and stayed up way too late reading. (Like, until 11. I’m pregnant.) They are slightly risque and show what I believe to be real change of attitudes toward God as opposed to some of the very cheesy conversions/romances that go on in a lot of Christian fiction. The books are perfect. Read them.

56. Mr. Churchill’s Secretary by Susan Elia Macneal – Based on many firsthand accounts of Churchill’s office during the beginnings of World War II in England, this historical fiction brings to life the nuances of living through such a time. Maggie is British by birth but raised in America, and she’s getting used to life in London when she takes a job as a typist for Mr. Churchill. Secrets unfold, bombs are dropped, and Maggie finds herself in the middle of some crazy mysteries and strange acquaintances, all while working overtime at Number 10 Downing Street.

57-58. The Girl Who Played with Fire and The Girl Who Kicked the Hornet’s Nest by Steig Larsson – Finally got around to reading these sequels to The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo. I’m not sure the plot is quite as riveting as the first novel, but I was sure itching to get my hands on the third as soon as I finished the second! I could do with a little more action and a little less history … but all in all, very good reads.

59. Dreaming in Technicolor by Laura Jensen Walker – I’ve wanted to read this sequel to Dreaming in Black and White for quite a while, so I grabbed it up for $1.99 on my Kindle. Unfortunately, it’s not nearly as good as the first in the series. The only thing I’ve ever read by Walker that I’ve been disappointed in. [When I am writing this, Dreaming in Black and White is $1.99 for Kindle. It's a great Christian romance. Read it!]

60-61. The Passage and The Twelve by Justin Cronin – My husband and I have been anxiously awaiting the release of The Twelve since we finished The Passage in late 2010. It’s slated to be a trilogy, so there will be one more book coming. I reread The Passage (all 900 pages!) so I would be ready to read The Twelve. First, I don’t think that was really necessary, because there’s a decent recap in the beginning of The Twelve. (Of course, if you haven’t read it, you definitely should. It’s a fascinating glimpse into what happens when a science experiment goes wrong and the post-apocalyptic society that follows.) I really enjoyed the part of The Twelve that went back to the beginning of the story and gives some background. The writing, like that of The Passage, is excellent; but I just didn’t find the book nearly as riveting as its predecessor. Sometimes that happens with second books in trilogies … so we’ll see how the third one pans out!

62-66. WaterfallCascadeTorrentBourne, and Tributary by Lisa T. Bergren – This is the whole River of Time series from Bergren. I LOVED THESE BOOKS. Mary had highly recommended them to me. I got about 50 pages into Waterfall and thought she must be insane … but I kept reading. And oh, I am now obsessed. I read the entire young-adult series in about 4 days. It’s about two sisters who find a time portal and travel back in time to medieval Italy. It seems cheesy … but the writing is so good, you find yourself wanting to live there with Evangelia and Gabriella too.

67. City of Ashes (Mortal Instruments Series) by Cassandra Clare – While I liked City of Bones, City of Ashes lost me. A little too much teen angst and crazy for my tastes.

68. Brave New World by Aldous Huxley – It’s hard to compare a classic to what I normally read. I wasn’t sure whether I’d be able to get into Huxley’s work, but it draws you in pretty immediately. The future world is so scary and strange and yet Huxley captures exactly what we think we want as far as science, technology, and sexuality goes. Just a genius work. So glad I finally read it.

69. Elizabeth Street by Laurie Fabiano -  Fabiano novelizes her own Italian-American family’s history in this novel. The novel centers around Giovanna, born in Italy but who moves to New York after tragedy strikes her young life. I really, really enjoyed the first half of the novel, which simply tells her story. When it got into the “real story” that dealt with the Italian Mafia (the Black Hand), I found it less interesting. The character development is excellent, though, and the author’s ability to retell family history without being overly sentimental or judgmental is very good.

 

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Using the Library with Littles by Kacie of Sense to Save

Kacie is a blogging friend who writes at Sense to Save. Her kids are about the same ages as mine, so we’ve exchanged many e-mails and questions over the last 5 years! 

Nothing Like Relaxing with a Good Book

Ever have to wrestle a screaming toddler and march said child past a “quiet zone” in the library right out the door, leaving empty-handed? Oh, I might have done that a few times. After some frustrating and stressful trips, I reevaluated how we handle the library at this stage of life.

My children adore books, and I get such a kick out of reading to them. We try to own plenty of quality titles, but as our money and our bookshelves are limited, we use the library as often as we can. I have a few ways of streamlining the library process.

My kids are at an age and temperament where trips to the library might go well, or they might be a disaster. My solution? They don’t go with me very often. When we all go together, I try to already have a stack of books waiting on the hold shelf. I grab those first and then add whichever books strike our fancy as we browse. The kids like to play computer games, do puzzles, or play with the blocks while we browse and read a few stories together. But we’re always ready to jet at a moment’s notice if need be. If I can swing it, I’ll take just my older child and let my daughter have some playtime at home with Daddy. When she gets a little more library-mature, we can do trips together.

More kids books
source: The Greenery Nursery

My library allows me to save booklists in my online account. I use this feature to help keep track of titles we’d like to read together at some point and to quickly place them on hold later. I have many lists–titles just for me, and also titles broken down by age range or source.

I borrowed Honey for a Child’s Heart and added many of their book selections to my online booklist. Of course, my library doesn’t carry all suggested titles. Other book list sources include titles from the Sonlight, Peak With Books, Five in a Row, and My Father’s World homeschool curricula.

A few days ahead of a solo or group library excursion, I’ll look at my list and place 10-15 or so titles on hold.

We’ll add another 15ish titles from shelf-browsing, and we’ll be set for a few weeks. The ones we liked will be read a few times.

I do like wandering the shelves to see what I can find, besides just using the online search catalog. I’ve found many great books this way–ones not on any list but enjoyable just the same.

All of our library books, when not in use, live in a designated bag in a closet that the kids cannot open. I’d rather not pay for lost books, so it’s better for us to just keep them inaccessible until they’re a little older.

My kids have a Shelfari account that I use to keep track of books that we own, and library favorites that we’ll want to read again someday (or eventually buy). I don’t update this  with all of our library titles as that would be too time-consuming, but I did activate a feature on our online library account that keeps track of titles we’ve checked out, so I can look that over if I ever had the urge.

Lastly, I’m trying to take advantage of the library’s online resources. Ours has several:

Freegal, a music download service, which allows me to download (and keep!) three mp3 files per week. For free! I am slowly adding to our music collection this way. I have a weekly reminder set in my Google calendar so I won’t forget. Three tracks per week is 156 per year in my permenant collection — can’t beat that.

Ebooks! I love that I can borrow an ebook without setting foot in the library. My branch’s e-collection is gradually growing. Right now, I’m only spotting some titles that are still a bit advanced for my kids, but their day is coming when I can read titles straight from my Kindle or phone.

Audiobooks are another option we can snag in-person or online, but right now they aren’t into that format. They prefer a live person reading to them.

My library recently added Zinio, a site that lets patrons read magazines online or on their mobile device. My library’s selection only includes titles for adults at the moment.

I love the resources in the library and I hope it helps instill a life-long love of reading.

How do you use the library with your little ones?

Kacie is a 27-year-old mom to a 4-year-old boy just a few months younger than Jessie’s Libbie, and a 2-year-old girl just 3 days older than Jessie’s David. Jessie’s 3rd child came in March, and Kacie’s is coming sometime in late September/early October. She blogs about money at Sensetosave.com.

Top Ten Tuesday: My Favorite Books

Since I’ve felt like I have nothing to write about recently except end-of-pregnancy woes, here’s a post from 2009 about my very favorite reads. Even nearly four years later, I can’t think of any books I would add right this second, although there have been many I’ve read and loved. Have your favorite books changed over time?

It’s been a while since I had a Top Ten Tuesday. I know I’ve been a little book-heavy lately, but I’m just in a reading phase! Right now I’m engrossed in Rachel’s Prayer, a book in a phenomenal series by Leisha Kelly.

So without further ado, here are my top ten favorite books, ever.

1. One Hundred Years of Solitude by Gabriel Garcia Marquez. The book that convinced me to be an English major, this masterpiece is so chock full of themes and characters it will make your head spin. I love the language, the mysticism, the history, and the intrigue.

2. Sophie’s Heart by Lori Wick. The best of the best in Christian fiction. A Czech immigrant becomes a nanny to three children whose mother has died.

3. The Attic Mice by Ethel Pochoeki. My aunt bought me this beautiful book for Christmas when I was a kid, and I still love it. I can’t wait to read it to Libbie. Do you believe in comfort reading? At some point in college, when something fairly tragic happened in my young life, Mr. V read this entire book aloud to me. It’s that kind of book. It’s a chapter book about a family of mice who live in a dollhouse and their adventures over the course of several years. [More about The Attic Mice and comfort reading here.]

4. Charlotte’s Web by EB White. Along those same lines, we have Charlotte’s Web, possibly the world’s best children’s book. I couldn’t even begin to tell you how many times I’ve read this.

5. The Birth of Venus by Sarah Dunant. I just adored this tale of Renaissance Italy and a romance that couldn’t be.

6. Saint Maybe by Anne Tyler. A favorite from high school. I love Anne Tyler’s simple family stories and exquisite prose. I find this is a tale that challenges your faith, too, wherever you might stand on the faith continuum.

7. Circle of Friends by Maeve Binchy. I love pretty much everything by Maeve Binchy, a modern Irish author. (All her novels, at least. The short stories I am not as crazy about.) I actually discovered her books going to an English bookstore in China. Tara Road was the longest book they had in English. I was bored. An obsession was sparked! [2013 update: Sadly, Binchy died last year at just 72. Her last book, A Week in Winter, was just released and you better believe I'm going to get my paws on it quickly!]

8. Echoes by Robin Jones Gunn. I could probably add the whole Glenbrooke Series as my favorite for #8. But this is my favorite in the Christian romance series. Probably because the hero and heroine are English major nerds, lovers of Robert and Elizabeth Barrett Browning, like I am! [2013 update: I don't like these updated covers for the series. But nobody asked me.]

9. Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott. By far the best book on writing I’ve ever read. Lamott is not for the faint-at-heart, and I have a love-hate relationship with her books on faith. But this is great, sound advice. I probably need to read it again. [More about this one here.]

10. In Her Shoes by Jennifer Weiner. Honestly, I’m not sure if this is a true favorite compared to the rest, but I’m running out of ideas here. I do truly love this book. Perhaps I relate to the plus-sized heroine just a little too much. I think Jennifer Weiner takes chick lit to a new level. She’s a fantastic writer. [2013: I'm currently reading Then Came You by Weiner. I think I may have outgrown her, or it's just teetering a little too much on the edge of trashy chicklit for me.] [PS Toni Collette as the main character in the movie adaptation of In Her Shoes? SCARRING. Good actress, but seriously. SHE WAS NOT EVER FAT. And just not ... right.]

Thoughts on these or your favorite reads?

Pregnant.

32 weeks pregnant

 

Perhaps it’s a gift from God that we sort of forget about this phase, the oh-so-pregnant one.

Right now, my hip has totally bummed out and most of the day I’m finding myself stuck on the couch or in my bed. Which has inevitably led to new distractions.

Distractions? Obsessions?

In the last 10 days or so, I’ve watched the first 13 episodes of Downton Abbey (OBSESSED and realize it. Have to remember they aren’t real people). Less exciting, I’ve picked up Candy Crush Saga on Facebook. Not to mention I’ve read an obscene amount of books in January.

I’m trying to recall if I had these same issues with my other pregnancies. With Libbie, it was Project Runway and Scramble on Facebook (I was GOOD, too, and I’m mad you can only play it as an app now given my smart-phone-less status). I’ve read through some old blogs and I can’t figure out what it was with David … I know we had a new DVR, I sat on my birth ball a ton, and I listened to a lot of Hypnobabies.

I can’t imagine sitting on the couch for the next 7 weeks, but I know it’s going to end up that way. I can’t imagine my belly being stretched any bigger, but I know it will. I can’t imagine being any more tired, but I know I sure will be.

God’s grace to women – He lets us forget a little bit in between these massively pregnant times.

Have you suffered from any pregnancy obsessions?

 

Look, Ma, We DID Something.

I’m really not a very good mom when I’m pregnant, which is half the reason I’m more-than-hesitant about saying I’ll ever do this again. I’m pretty sure I’m done with pregnancy after March … although you never know.

And parenting when I’m 7 months pregnant AND my back has totally spazzed out? Basically does not happen.

Which is why I was pretty proud that yesterday morning I managed to DO something with the kids.

We started out painting polar bears, an idea I got from Keeping Life Creative. I actually let David paint, which I don’t usually do. I asked the kids whether they wanted brown bears or white bears, and they both chose white, so voila, we had two polar bears.

polar bear art

polar bear art 2

(I did all the cutting and gluing, although Libbie drew her own face.)

Then, after we talked a little bit about how polar bears live in Antarctica and how humans can’t really live there, we watched two YouTube videos about the arctic. (NOT the ones titled “Polar Bear Eats Baby Seal.”

Had it not been Martin Luther King, Jr. day, I would have taken them to the library to explore books on polar bears and Antarctica. But since it was, I went by myself today (Tuesday) while they are in school and asked the children’s librarian for some suggestions. Here are the books we checked out to explore:

I love having my little ones at home and having the freedom to have these sort-of-mini-homeschool units to let them explore what they find interesting. I think next we’ll make Toilet Paper Roll Penguins!

 

 

[please Pin this craft from the original source]

What other fun arctic-y things could we do?

Ghost Stories

Note: This may contain some mild spoiler alerts for the books Peony in Love, The Night Strangers, and The Beginner’s Goodbye. I’m trying not to give any, but just in case you intend to read one of those in the near future, you’ve been warned.

I do NOT enjoy horror movies … or really, even suspenseful ones. I think it went down in history when I told my best friend that watching Gone in 60 Seconds made me nervous. I hid my face for the entirety of The Sixth Sense, and I can count on maybe one and a half hands the number of horror movies I’ve ever seen.

I just don’t like being scared.

(I tried to find the picture of me hiding and horrified on the ride DINOSAUR at Animal Kingdom … from when I was in college. Apparently it hasn’t been scanned and my parents have saved me that embarrassment thus far. How about this one instead? Why no, I don’t have any shame.)

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Anyway, I know I looked at the blurb on Chris Bohjalian’s The Night Strangers before I started reading it. I knew it was about a plane crash and ghosts. But I’ve read several of his books before, and I just didn’t think it would be very scary. I’d read Jodi Picoult’s ghost story, Second Glance, and thought it would be similar.

But it was scary.

It freaked me the heck out.

And strangely, I had just read The Peach Keeper, which deals vaguely with ghosts or spirits, too.

After having nightmares about the book ROOM, followed by nights of going to sleep thinking about drowned ghosts from The Night Strangers, you’d think I would be a little more careful about what I picked out next.

When we got home after our Christmas trip to my in-laws, I made a long list of all the books from my Kindle wishlist that our library had hard copies of. Because it’s senseless to pay for them on Kindle when I can go get them from the library, right? I returned with five or six books from some of my favorite authors. For the most part, I just knew they were books by authors I liked that I hadn’t read yet.

So I read a few. And then I read Peony in Love by Lisa See … where the main character is a ghost for two-thirds of the novel. Really? Another ghost story?

And then I picked up the latest Anne Tyler book. Safe Anne Tyler, one of my favorite authors, so practical. AND THE MAIN CHARACTER WAS SEEING THE GHOST OF HIS LATE WIFE. I never would have expected that from Anne Tyler, even if it is a pretty boring ghost as ghosts go.

This pattern is starting to freak me out a little bit. We live in a 100-year-old building … and as far as I know, no one has died here. But if they have, I don’t want to know. OK?

Yours Truly, Scaredy Pants.

(By the way, you can see all the books I’ve read this year – or in 2012 – with short reviews on Pinterest. Also, will you warn me if there are more ghost stories on my Want to Read It board?)

 

 

25 Jesus-Centered Christmas Books to Celebrate Advent


I love the idea I’ve seen again and again on Pinterest for wrapping 25 Christmas books up and letting your kids open one as part of each day of Advent. We’ll be doing Truth in the Tinsel again this year, and reading a book together seems like a good waiting-for-glue-to-dry activity, doesn’t it?

But here’s the thing—and think we’re evil if you want—but we don’t do Santa. I am certainly not anti-Santa by any means, but we’ve chosen to focus on Jesus as the reason for Christmas, not Santa bringing gifts. Mommy and Daddy bring the gifts in our family. (OK, truthfully, Grandma, Grandpa, Nana, and Popi bring most of the gifts.)

So I’ve been trying to come up with 25 books sans Santa that we could use for this activity. And maybe you have, too? Here are my suggestions – please leave yours in the comments!

God Gave Us Christmas by Lisa Tawn Bergren – No, I don’t like God Gave Us You. But I do like this one more. And I hadn’t put together until right now that this is the same author who wrote Waterfall, which I just read this week and LOVED!

The Perfect Christmas Gift (Gigi, God’s Little Princess Series) by Sheila Walsh – I believe I’ve expounded on my great love for the Gigi books. They are funny for kids and adults and teach little girls great lessons about being a daughter of the Highest King.

The Pine Tree Parable by Liz Curtis Higgs – “It’s one of those Christmas books that isn’t technically about baby Jesus and the manger but still manages to get the entire real true story of Christmas in there without being trite or cheesy. I cry every single time I read it!” – OhAmanda

The Very First Christmas (Beginner’s Bible) – I believe this is just the Christmas story excerpted from The Beginner’s Bible; but since we don’t have that Bible, I like this one. It’s divided into tiny chapters and includes everything from the angel visiting Mary to the flight to Egypt. It also has a short chapter about Jesus growing up and what He did on the cross. [Plus, this is only $1.99 at ChristianBook.com and even less if you buy in bulk, making it perfect for handing out to Sunday School classes.]

The First Christmas by Gaby Goldsack – Your basic Christmas story retelling, with sweet illustrations by Caroline Pedler.

Lift-the-Flap Nativity from Reader’s Digest – This one is great for my smaller guy (he’ll be 2 the week of Christmas). He LOVES flaps. Fun and interactive!

The Candle in the Window by Grace Johnson – This one is long—I would never expect David to sit through it. But it’s a beautiful story of a German cobbler who remembers the true meaning of Christmas as Christmas Eve passes. Based on a story by Leo Tolstoy. The illustrations by Mark Elliott are lovely and enchanting as well.

Song of the Stars by Sally Lloyd-Jones – “This is a children’s book, but I was totally captivated by this story. Each page shows and tells about different aspects of our world – the wind, the trees, the animals, the stars – as they whisper to each other, ‘It’s time! It’s time!’ The anticipation builds until at last Jesus arrives and creation celebrates the Light of the World and the Prince of Peace.” – The Christian Manifesto

Humphrey’s First Christmas by Carol Heyer – I’ve been captivated by this book ever since I saw its cover. Isn’t Humphey a hoot? He’s one of the camels who carries the Wise Men, and this is his story. I finally ordered it today!

 

The Legend of the Candy Cane by Lori Walburg – A stranger comes to a small town and introduces them to legend behind the candy cane, with help from a little girl named Lucy.

Room for a Little Oneby Martin Waddell – On Christmas Eve / all are welcome / at the stable. / On Christmas Eve / all are welcome / because there’s always / room for a little one.

The King’s Christmas List by Eldon Johnson – This is based on the same passage and ideas as The Candle in the Window, so it would be good to introduce a week later or so and reiterate what you learned there.

The Wonder of Christmas by Dandi Daley Mackall – We love Miss Mackall in our house. I love how this one prompts your children to think about how each character in the Nativity might have been thinking then.

Josie’s Gift by Kathleen Bostrom – This is one of my absolute favorite Christmas books; and I think Libbie will be old enough to really sit through it this year (she’s 4). More than anything, Josie wants a beautiful blue sweater. But it’s the Depression and her father died that year. Is Christmas about what you want … or what you have?

On This Special Night by Claire Freedman – Although Jesus’ name is never mentioned, children with any context of the Christmas story will “get” it as they see the animals gather for a very special night. This one is all about the illustrations.

Merry Creature Christmas by Dandi Daley Mackall – Another Mackall treasure. “Little Star, Big Bear, and the proud, white mare, Join the forest creatures dancing everywhere. All the bluebirds sing, praising Christ the King, On the night of the Creature Christmas.”

The Best Thing about Christmas by Christine Harder Tangvald – A little simplistic, but a good choice, especially for smaller children.

The Crippled Lamb by Max Lucado – Joshua the lamb can’t keep up with the other sheep and feels left out … but finds himself in a special stable.

The Tiny Star by Art Ginolfi – A little board book, where a tiny star plays a big role.

The Tale of the Three Trees by Angela Hunt – Based on the folktale, Angela Hunt retells the story of three trees who think they dream to be certain things … and find themselves in even more important roles. Not strictly a Christmas book, but I think it’s good to relate the whole story of Jesus to Christmas.

A Christmas Goodnight by Nola Buck – A little boy says good-night to his nativity on Christmas Eve.

The First Noel illustrated by Jody Wheeler – Watercolor paintings put to the words to the carol “The First Noel.”

Christmas Angels by Gwen Ellis – Tells how angels were involved in the Christmas story.

Mary’s First Christmas by Walter Wangerin Jr – A different way of telling the story, this is written from the viewpoint of Mary talking to Jesus about his birth when he is a boy. Undertones of what will happen to Jesus find their way into the story; some Amazon reviewers didn’t like that it is a little dark in places.

The Story of Christmas by Pamela Dalton – Yes, it’s one last Nativity storybook. But this one uses the words straight from the KJV alongside incredible papercutting illustrations. How gorgeous!

So there you have it! Twenty-five books you can wrap up and stick under the tree. Each day in December, let your children pick one to open and read together. There will be a lot of repetition, which will help the True Story of Christmas really stick in their little hearts.

What’s your favorite Jesus-Centered Christmas book?

Day 24: UGH.

It’s day 24 and it’s the first day I’ve REALLY been tempted to cheat.

My kids are on “Fall Break,” which means no reprieve from parenting this week. No couple hours to myself. My daughter (we should just call her mini-me) has had 53 meltdowns this morning. I know she’s exhausted but she’s been fighting a nap for two hours, so somehow I don’t think she’s going to give in now. The rest of the afternoon should be SUPER with her not napping and in what we like to call her “Attitudey Judy” mood.

I’m pregnant, tired, have piles of work not to mention housework, and yet all I really want to do is lay on the couch with a heating pad on my knotted-up shoulder and read a magazine or a fluffy novel. Not think.

That’s been the hardest part of this, I think – no escape. Reading some light is my happy place, my escape pod from parenting two tiny ones and being pregnant with a third. Introvert Mama just needs her half an hour to pretend she’s anywhere but here.

Reading the Bible just doesn’t do that. It makes me reflect and think. It makes me consider what I could do better, what’s wrong in how I view Jesus, and oh for the love of everything how awful I am at parenting compared to our Heavenly Father.

Is it OK to want to escape? I really don’t know.

31 Days of The Book

I guess it’s time to tell you a) why I have been so scarce other than the growing baby in my belly and b) what’s going on here in October!

So here’s the back story.

Most of you know that I read A LOT. I love books. I am willing to sacrifice TV, movies, and sometimes quality parenting to spend time reading. I love talking about books and writing book reviews and encouraging others to read.

This summer I spent a WHOLE lot of time reading – long books. I read the entire Harry Potter series in the course of two and a half weeks. I read 300-page books in a day and a half. And in the beginning of September, I found myself reading the second and third books in the Dragon Tattoo series in just a few days. Those are some long and intense books.

Meanwhile, my Bible sat on my bedside table unopened. Maybe once or twice a week I would try to read a few pages in my one-a-day Bible, but most of the time I just looked at it and decided to read a book instead. Very intentionally. Very aware of what I was thinking.

As September began, I felt very convicted. The Bible was not meant to just sit there. How else will I remain entrenched in the Truth? I pray to know how to raise my kids and realize I am ignoring the best advice I could have as it rests, closed, beside me.

Spiritually I felt a little hollow.

And I felt upon my heart an idea: read ONLY the Bible for awhile. Make a sacrifice of praise.

The more I considered this idea, the more I felt it came directly from God. It’s fasting, in a way, a fasting I can do as a pregnant woman. I’m fasting from something I really love as a sacrifice to the One I really love.

I seriously considered whether to share this or not. Whether to make it my 31 days “project.” But, prayerfully, I decided that if I could encourage someone to really step into the Bible and read it herself then it would be worth it.

So each day in October I’ll be sharing either a devotional based on my reading or a summary/story about what giving up books has been like.

The basics?

  • My month began on September 16th, but you’ll see my posts from October 1st to 31st. Most of them will have been written in advance, because I wanted to make sure I had adequate time to write something for every day and to edit.
  • I am not reading any books or magazines. I am reading blogs (although not spending much time doing so, I need to for my ParentLife work and Linky Loving). I am using online commentaries as well for my writing.
  • If you want to join along for a day, three days, a week, or a whole month, I’d love it! We can keep up with one another on my Facebook page, Twitter, or in the comments.
  • There will still be a few other posts in October. I’ll post my Secret Recipe Club recipe and share about a party I’m throwing with The Motherhood!

So, are you ready? I think I am. I will admit I covet your prayers desperately. Writing devotionals is where my heart is and where my passions and God’s work align. Because of that, it scares me to death.

Looking forward to spending October with you!

Day 1: Scapegoat
Day 2: Stranger
Day 3: Levites
Day 4: Death & Taxes
Day 5: Confessions & Light
Day 6: Judging/Mercy
Day 7: Week One
Day 8: Leaven
Day 9: The Donkey Speaks
Day 10: The Whole Shebang
Day 11: Disciplined
Day 12: Jumping to Action
Day 13: Two Ways
Day 14: Light of Your Presence
Day 15: Moving On
Day 16: Deceivers
Day 17: The Lady with the Tent Peg
Day 18: Hrm.
Day 19: Signs
Day 20: 3-Year-Old Theology
Day 21: Message
Days 22 and 23: Judges
Day 24: UGH
Day 29: Ruth
Day 30: Atonement
Day 31: The End

What I’ve Been Into: July

I love these posts Mary does wrapping up her month, and since I’ve been a little low on writing inspiration lately, I thought I’d chime in for July.

Moving and travel summed up a lot of July for us. I was in Ohio and North Carolina, and moved apartments in the middle.

Here are some the books I read in July. City of Bones is the first in the Mortal Instruments series. It’s a young adult, fantasy series. I liked it enough that I think I’ll read at least a few more, but I wasn’t in love with them.

Pearl in the Sand by Tessa Afshar took me a while to get into, but I found it incredible. It’s a retelling of the biblical story of Rahab and really going into what it would have been like for a Canaanite to become part of Israel. There was so much Truth in this book without it being preachy.

I listened to The Crowning Glory of Calla Lilly Ponder in my car during all the travel. It’s by Rebecca Wells, the author of Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood. I keep reading her books, hoping she’ll crank out another Ya-Ya book. No such luck. But it was enjoyable to listen to.

The last week, I’ve delved into my every-so-many-years rereading of the Harry Potter series. It just needs to happen. It makes me happy.

I’ve read a few other books, too, but you can read about them on my Read This Year page … when I get around to writing about all of them.

We’ve been making good use of our new Roku and watching Doctor Who on Netflix and New Girl on Hulu Plus. We’ve been itching to watch New Girl forever after missing it when it was on, and it definitely lives up to the hype. Hilarious. Doctor Who can be pretty amusing, too, and while it’s more Mr. V’s type of show, I really do like it, too.

I’m sort of having a hard time remembering whether it was in June or July, but we did go to see Brave in the theater (sans kids). Definitely loved it.

Other things I’ve loved this month:

  • listening to David try to sing the VeggieTales theme song. It is the CUTEST THING EVER. “Cer-eh-ree!”
  • Seeing my babies on the beach for the first time.
  • Swimming.
  • Wearing my two new maxi dresses to death.
  • Trying to stay up late enough to watching gymnastics on the Olympics.

What have you been into during July?

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