10 Favorite Movies from My Teens

Are there movies you could watch again and again … even though they are more appropriate for 14-year-olds? Maybe for you it’s High School Musical … or maybe you grew up Pretty in Pink?

All it took was one passing mention of one of these films and I was instantly transported to my own teenaged years. So just for fun, here are 10 of my favorite movies from when I was a teen [I turned 13 in 1995].

1. Camp Nowhere (1994) – Cute boys, four cliques brought together, innocent kisses, and life without parents. I’m pretty sure I could still watch this 18 times in a row. And my heart might still beat a little fast for 12-year-old Jonathan Jackson. Ha.

2. Now and Then (1995) – Four girlfriends in the 60s grow up a little bit and find out about themselves and friendships. I love the flash forwards to their adult selves, and I love the 60s soundtrack! I remember going to see this with my Sunday School class and gushing over Devon Sawa. As my sister said (very, very tired, on a road trip), “Sometimes you just need to see Devon Sawa’s booty.”

3. Casper (1995) – Yeah, I’m pretty sure this one was entirely to do with the 5 minutes Devon Sawa is Casper, the human version. And my 13-year-old self fumed with jealousy that Christina Ricci got to kiss him, again.

4. 10 Things I Hate About You (1999) – I’ve declared my love for this teen flick before. I’ve seen it a million times. It’s pretty darn funny. And the whole nerdy guy from 10 Things is the head elf in The Santa Clause is the dude from Numbers? Crazy.

5. She’s All That (1999) – As I “matured,” my love for Devon Sawa gave way to an intense love for Freddie Prinze, Jr. (Which also explains my prejudice against Sarah Michelle Gellar, his now-wife.) No, this movie is not really good. It’s your typical girl-takes-off-her-glasses-and-now-she’s-hot-and-guy-loves-her. But … Freddie!

6. Grease (1978) – I’m pretty sure Grease is part of every woman’s teenaged life since 1978. My husbands claims all the words to all the songs are implanted on the second X chromosome. What sleepover is complete without an off-key and window-shattering rendition of “Summer Nights”?

7. Drive Me Crazy (1999) – A little twist on the “one of them changes and now it’s OK” relationship, in this one girl tries to change guy to make her ex jealous. But it’s OK, because she figures out that she likes him for him at the end. I like Melissa Joan Hart and thought Adrian Grenier was adorable in this movie before he got famous on Entourage.

8. Down to You (2000) – More Freddie, more Julia Stiles. I love Julia Stiles. She was in a bunch of teen movies, but she really was and is a great actress. Other than that, I really have no defense for this one.

9. Cruel Intentions (1999) – Apparently 1999 was a HUGE year for teen flicks. Yeah, the premise of this movie is just flat-out awful. But I can’t say I didn’t watch it five or ten times. Besides, I liked being able to legitimately hate Sarah Michelle Gellar.

10. Drop Dead Gorgeous (1999) – I remember going to see this with my sister and some friends in the theater and thinking it was one of the stupidest movies I’d ever seen. And then I watched it again … and again … and suddenly it was flat-out hilarious. Kirsten Dunst was perfect in this black comedy set in Minnesota.

What movies do you still love from your teen years?

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Top Ten Recipes of 2011

It’s still January, right? So it’s completely valid for me to share my Top Ten Most-Visited Recipes of 2011.  Need something for dinner tonight? Look no further!

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1. Five Minute Spinach Salad with Cherry Vinaigrette (OK, the vinaigrette doesn’t have vinegar, so let’s just call it a “juicy salad dressing.” – Super customizable, tasty, easy. A trifecta of yummyness!

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2. Chocolate Coconut Oat Bars – A great recipe for cooking with kids, this was my first month in the Secret Recipe Club. And it just might give you a hint of what’s coming for my February Secret Recipe Club post …

3. Mexican Corn Dip / Oreo Truffles – The fact that I don’t have any pictures of these hasn’t stopped the traffic to these delicious recipes. They’re both on the same post, “Party Food.” Just a few ingredients and you’ll be the talk of the party with my “Magically Delicious Corn Dip.”

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4. Summer Bow-Tie Pasta – Mozzarella, cherry tomatoes, and basil are summer staples. This warm pasta salad is enough for a main dish and bring your normal caprese salad to a new level with homemade balsamic vinaigrette.

5. Mom’s Enchiladas – Thanks to a lot of traffic from Once a Month Mom, this remains one of my biggest posts ever. Thanks, Tricia!

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6. Pumpkin Spice Latte Cookies – Totally worth upsetting my husband over changing his mama’s pumpkin cookie recipe. These tasty treats are an incredible combination of coffee and pumpkin and reminiscent of the Starbucks fall drink.

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7. Scalloped Corn – One of my family’s holiday go-to recipes.

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8. Chocolate Avocado Cake with Blackberry Cream Cheese Frosting – Divinely moist without the addition of eggs or milk, this chocolate cake is perfect for allergy-sufferers. I’m sorry the frosting isn’t vegan … but it is amazing, too.

9. Broccoli and Cheese Soup – This Cooking Light favorite is one of my oldest recipes and still just as good. 

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10. Tilapia with Honey-Tangerine Sauce – Beautiful and tasty. Pretty enough for a dinner party and fast enough for a worknight meal.

Risking a little bit of egotism … do you have a favorite recipe from my site? (OK, or any blog?)

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Favorites of 2011

You know when you have really bad writer’s block? After you’ve been to three states in nine days and thought about nothing but family and Christmas for weeks.

Since imitation truly is the highest form of flattery, I decided to copy Simple Mom and share my favorite books, movies, TV shows, and music of 2011. (As she said, ones that were new to me, not necessarily new to 2011.)

Sometimes it takes the act of writing to spark further writing, which is why “they” say all the best writers write every day. A practice I’ve fallen out of. I write a lot in my head. Does that count?

So without further ado …

BOOKS (of course)

I read so, so, SO many amazing books in 2011. I don’t know what sparked that, if it was just a streak of luck or coming into contact with great recommendations, but I am certainly glad for it.


You can read my treatise on why I think everyone should read Heaven Is for Real. I zipped through the small book a few short hours and found it very affecting. Read it.

I don’t think there’s much you haven’t heard about The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo or The Help. Both are wonderful, fast-paced reads that have spurred movies. (The former, movies in both Swedish and English!) There is a reason both are so popular: plots full of detail and excitement, rendering the reader completely unable to put them down. Read when you have the hours to devote to them!

The Handmaid’s Tale by Margaret Atwood was an unexpected favorite from this year. The author created another world … just after the one in which we currently live. (After reading The Hunger Games, fear of the government is starting to get to me!) Atwood is a word artist and I left this book wanting to read everything she’s written.

You can see everything I read in 2011 on this page. A few other favorites: Caleb’s Crossing by Geraldine Brooks; The Paris Wife by Paula McClain; Kisses from Katie by Katie Davis.

TV

I loved watching Top Chef: All-Stars. I suppose it’s part of the little voice in my head that tells me I could be a chef if I REALLY wanted to (I don’t.) that convinces me to watch the crazy cooking shows. I’d seen most of the prior seasons of Top Chef, though, and enjoyed watching the old favorites. (As I am sure I will love Project Runway All-Stars. Woohoo!) 

I am pretty sure Modern Family is the best show on television. (At least if you vastly prefer sitcoms, as I do. I’m just not a drama girl.) It never fails to crack me up; and mid-week, a girl just needs a good laugh.

Mr. V and I still watch How I Met Your Mother, and we will ’til the end. I won’t say it’s the best show out there … it’s had its ups and downs and maybe peaked at season 2. But in all its ridiculousness, it just makes me smile a lot of the time.

Honorable mentions to Once Upon a Time and Firefly, which Mr. V and I saw for the first time and proceeded to mourn the loss of all the seasons it should have had.

MOVIES

I confess I am not into movies like I used to be. Mr. V and I went with the crowd and changed to just Netflix instant streaming with the price increase, and we mostly use it to watch old TV shows anyway.

The only movies I saw in the theater this year were Something Borrowed (and you know that was a great cinema masterpiece) and two-thirds of Monsters vs. Aliens ($1 summer movie with the kids, who started crying, so we left).

So, as I can remember, the best movies I watched this year (for the first time) were The Social Network, Edward Scissorhands, and Despicable Me.

MUSIC

Thanks to the wonder that is Spotify, we’ve listened to a lot of new music this year. (I am not someone who thinks your music, make-up, exercise, etc, need to be “social,” but we definitely enjoy being able to listen to anything under the sun!)

Here are some new favorites.


Station Wagon: Songs for Parents by Sara Groves – If you are a parent, you MUST give this at least one listen. All of the songs ring true and some crack me up. (The line “Do you have any idea how much it hurts to give birth?” is sung in the background of one song. Love it.)

Kari Jobe by … well, Kari Jobe – A great album of praises to God. Love her voice.

The Band Perry – Another great breakout album. Fills my country fix. (Since when do I need a country fix?? I HATED country music growing up. I’ve been in Tennessee too long!)

Kuhzoo by Bellaruse – The lead singer of this group happens to be my uber-talented cousin, Kay Gillette … but if I didn’t like the music, I still wouldn’t listen to it. And I do. It’s crazy, jazz/folk/something type stuff. Just trying listening to The Kazoo Song and see if you aren’t addicted!

If you’ve made it through this lengthy ordeal, you must tell me: what were your favorites of 2011?


Let’s pretend this is a top ten plus, oh, eight list and link it to Top Ten Tuesday. I think Amanda loves me too much to call me out on it. ;)

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Christmas Baking

See, I have this problem.

I have this little sister Lola.

Oh wait, maybe I’ve read this book a few too many times in the past week. Ahem. Let me start over.

I have this problem. I REALLY love to bake. You might not think that’s a problem, but it is. Because I am afraid it might turn me into a 600-pound woman who can’t get through her front door.

Thankfully, I have a whole dorm of high-school boys that I send baked goods down to at least once a week. It’s an excellent way to try out recipes.

With all the Christmas decorations coming out, I am just itching to bake. I’m taking suggestions in the comment sections on what I should make (and home addresses, for shipping?!). Here are ten ideas from my readers or recipes that I love!

Hello Dolly bars



Chocolate Chip Almond Cookie Bars

Oreo Truffles

Pumpkin Cookies

Peanut-Butter Ball Cupcakes with PB Cream Cheese Frosting

Buckeyes (these are slightly nontraditional, but don’t they look ah-mah-zing?)

Andes Mint Cookies

Christmas Bark (AKA Saltine Candy or Christmas Crack … Cannot. Stop. Eating.)

Eggnog Cookies

White Chocolate Cherry Chunkies



Do you have a holiday baking list? Or do you break-and-bake or not at all?

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Throwing a Shoebox Packing Party

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For years I’ve enjoyed packing shoeboxes for Operation Christmas Child. Do you know about this wonderful ministry? Here in the States we fill shoeboxes with toys, toiletries, clothes, crafts, and other fun things children might need. Samaritan’s Purse ships these boxes around the globe to children in orphanages and very poor communities, where they probably won’t receive any other Christmas gift.

When I taught Girls in Action at our church in Nashville, we spent several Wednesday nights effectively having an Operation Christmas Child shoebox-packing party, just spread out over time. We would fill in the fun sheets Samaritan’s Purse provides with information about the children and some of their favorite things. We would wrap shoeboxes in Christmas paper. We would fill our boxes together and take them down to the altar of the church. It was an awesome time to see kids doing ministry together.

Libbie’s third birthday is this Thursday, October 27. I kept thinking, and thinking, and thinking about what I wanted to do for her. I swore last year was her big hoopla while she was still an only child, and I didn’t want to do something that big again. (And yes, to some of you it might seem like a small soiree, but I get stressed out over things being perfect.)

We were also in the midst of moving into our new apartment, which is not tiny but very difficult to get people to on the campus where we live. Between that and juggling two little kids all the time I just could not get up the oomph to plan a party for her. And my mind kept coming back to the fact that she just has SO MANY TOYS. The last thing the child needs is more toys.

Like a lightning bolt, it struck me that what I wanted to do was send toys to kids who didn’t have overflowing shelves like we do. So we had a Shoebox Packing Party/Birthday Party!

Here are our tips and plans, if you’d like to plan something similar.

1. Ask families to bring items to go in shoeboxes in lieu of gifts. (If your church does not provide the standard shoeboxes from Samaritan’s Purse, you should ask each family to bring a shoebox, too.)

2. Make the party “open.” Since this is a ministry, we wanted as many kids to come as wanted to! We actually only had 10 kids, but that was about what I expected. It was perfect for the space we had. But I wanted to make sure people felt comfortable bringing friends if they wanted to. We advertised it to our whole preschool department at church.

3. Buy ahead. Before I even knew we were having our party, I started buying items on clearance for shoeboxes this year. Target and Office Depot had some great close-outs on school supplies at the end of September. College items were also clearanced around that time. Last week, I ordered a bunch of stuff for up to 90% off online from Gymboree, with their fall clearance plus a coupon. Score! Keep your eyes peeled for awesome deals throughout the year.

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4. Plan food! Everyone’s favorite part, right? I kept it simple with drinks, pizza, and cake. We waited until we saw how many people were there, and then Mr. V went and got hot-and-ready $5 pizzas at Little Ceasar’s. This cake was the one “indulgence” I allowed my crazy-Jessie-party-planner self. It is Glorious Treats’ Pink Ombre Cake. I used her recipe for Perfect Vanilla Cupcakes and Vanilla Buttercream with a touch of cream cheese. It didn’t turn out quite as perfect as hers, but it tasted INCREDIBLE and was gorgeous. (Especially thanks to my sister’s skill with a pastry bag!) (See below for my sample menu.)

On Party Day

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5. Set up tables. Divide your items into categories, and as people arrive have them sort their items onto the tables as well. Our categories were: clothes and accessories, girls, boys and unisex, toiletries, school supplies, and candy.

6. Personalize your boxes. I ordered the (free) OCC Party Pack from Samaritan’s Purse, and it came with a bunch of the form-letter-things for the kids to fill out. It lets them put their name, age, where they live, some of their favorites, and draw some pictures. It’s a cute way to make the box a little more personal for the recipient.

7. Fill up the boxes. We led each family to pick a gender/age for their box, check the appropriate box on the tag, tape the tag to the box, and then go down the line and pick items for their boxes. Some families did two, and after the kids were bored moms and dads stepped in to do the rest. We ended up with 16 boxes, which was great!

Try to make sure your boxes are a good assortment of each category of goods as well as being age-appropriate. If you have leftover items you can always try to stuff them in the packed boxes, or make an additional box later.

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Adorable baby not included with this free party package!

8. Christmas card time! I bought bright paper, glitter foam stickers, Christmas stickers, and crayons at the Dollar General and let the kids go wild. With pre-schoolers, the cards were mostly a bunch of stickers randomly placed on the paper, but who cares? Again, it’s personal and fun.

9. Bon appetit, it’s time to eat. Like I said, we kept it simple. Libbie got to blow out her candles (well, I did it for her as she was too shy to do it in public) and the kiddos were happy with the fare. If you want to do something different, you could serve foods from countries around the world: enchilada puffs, layered Greek dip, sesame-crusted chicken strips, roasted honey-cinnamon chickpeas, and some fun cupcakes might make an interesting and delicious menu.

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10. Playtime! You could create a game (how many countries of the world can you name? pin the OCC logo on the box?) or just let the kids run around in a yard or open space. We held our party in our church’s gym area, so the kids went to town playing with balls and running around.

This lovely OCC Packing Party surely worked for me! And yes, it’s also a top 10 list.

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10 Fun Activities for Little Kids

If you’re like me, you probably feel like you should be doing things with your kids. Sometimes I struggle to come up with anything my two-year-old can and will do. (Today she even refused to COLOR something just because I wanted her to do it. Sigh.)

For those of us who are not crafters-by-nature, thankfully the Internet is full of people who DO have good ideas! Yay!

Thanks to Pinterest, here are 10 ideas for fun projects to do with your little kids.

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Source: parents.com via Jill on Pinterest

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Clicking on the “source” link will take you straight to posts with instructions!

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Top Ten Birthday Wishes

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There is really very little I need right now. My house is full of things I want to purge. I have sweet, healthy children, a loving husband, a roof, and food.

But since my birthday is Thursday (1 more year til the big 3-0 …), I thought it would be fun to brainstorm a wishlist in honor of Top Ten Tuesday. (Which I also did two years ago, in case you were interested. Yes, in blogging world, what happened once will likely happen again.)

1. For our air conditioner to be fixed. File under: first world problems, spoiled. Right now it’s 81 degrees in our house and I am just hoping we’ll all be able to sleep tonight. Hopefully this problem will be amended tomorrow by our landlord.

2. For our house to sell. Yes, it’s the theme of our life that will not end. Our condo in Nashville is on the market again as a short sell. We had an offer. It was withdrawn. I would love nothing more for this whole situation to be over. I might even be willing to live without air conditioning all summer if it meant the house would sell.

3. To sponsor another child. We currently sponsor one sweet boy, Jerome, through Compassion. He lives in the Philippines and will be seven in August. I would love to be able to sponsor more children, and I hope that is on the top of our priority list if our house ever does sell. If you’d like to sponsor a child in honor of my birthday, I’d be pleased as punch! It’s a great blessing to me to get letters from Jerome’s mother and see him grow up.

4. To find a nursing bra with support. Just being real here. I call this Mission: Impossible. Ugh.

5. For Libbie to stop saying, “No, I …” every time I tell her to do something. I am afraid I am not going to survive until this child goes to school. She has a big heart, but it is not turned toward obedience yet.

6.  These Crocs. Cause hello, how cute are they? Perfect fun summer shoes.

Grace for the Good Girl: Letting Go of the Try-Hard Life

7. A pre-order of Grace for the Good Girl by Emily Freeman. I think I need to read this, badly.

8. Someone to clean my house from top to bottom. And then show me how to keep it that way. Somehow I think this is the least realistic wish here.



9. That dress for Libbie to wear to Disney World. Cause we all know putting her in precious clothes is all for Mama, not her. Or maybe this one. Or this one. Geez Louise, this seller makes a LOT of cute stuff.

10. An outrageously fun, girly, crazy, chocolate-infused 30th birthday party with my #sisterchicks. You have a year to plan, girls! (I just love being the youngest of them, by the way, and continually rubbing it in. And they love me anyway.)

Thanks for letting me indulge my imagination for a little while! Go visit some more top ten lists at Top Ten Tuesday.

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Ten Things I Didn’t Expect to Do in the Past Week, But I Did

1. Hide in my neighbors‘ basement with my kids because we don’t have a basement or any room without a window. And I could not imagine trying to sit in the hallway with Libbie and have her stay there.

2. Hide in a closet at my friend Stacy‘s house while our dinner got cold (but hey, at least we got to cook dinner and still had a great meal together … after that wave of the storm).

3. Listen to a weather radio go off approximately 800 times in the course of a few hours.

4. Call my dad and say, “Hey dad, we’re OK, we don’t have power, we’re at a friend’s house” and have him say, “Huh?”

5. Be online only a few times over the course of four days and live to tell about it.

6. Play Scrabble with my husband by candlelight.

7. See my neighbor’s house absolutely crushed by a tree.

8. Be so relieved that we had an enormous, dead tree removed from our front yard this fall.

9. Clean out my refrigerator of all but a few things.

10. Get to sleep in at a friend’s house (after being up with David every two hours) as she claimed my son and then made us crepes. (She is a saint!!!)

Well, that’s our storm recap. Were any of you affected by these tornadoes that whipped through the South last week?

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Top Ten Tuesday: My Baby Hates Sleep

David is an angel baby. He is smiley, happy, cooey, albeit pretty drooly. He nurses happily, happily spits up, and giggles as he gets his clothes changed.

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But he hates to sleep.

At four months, the longest he has ever slept is 6 hours. And that is very rare. I am so tired I feel like I am sleepwalking a lot of the time. It is hard to have an infant and a toddler. HARD!

David is a tummy sleeper; he will only sleep about 15 minutes on his back and then wake up and cry about it. For the past three weeks, since he learned to turn from belly to back, he will roll over every 2-3 hours all night long, and then wake up and cry. He can’t roll from back to belly.

Again … it’s a good thing he’s usually happy and insanely cute.

My happy guy

Mostly in jest, here are 10 ways I have considered getting David to sleep longer.

1. Duct taping him laying on his tummy, as suggested on my Facebook Fan Page.

2. Swaddling. SwaddleMe? Nope. Miracle Blanket? Not a chance. He will wriggle until he is free or scream bloody murder until released from the restrictive cocoon. (If anyone would like to purchase an open but very much unused Miracle Blanket from me, shoot me an email. jessie at vanderbiltwife dot com.)

3. Co-sleeping. I like co-sleeping in theory. But in practice, I have a really hard time sleeping if there is a baby in the bed because I roll around a lot. I cannot get comfortable and therefore am getting even less sleep than I was before. We often end up co-sleeping some of the night if I fall asleep while nursing. The rest of the time he is still in a pack-and-play right by my side of the bed.

4. Just swaddling on the bottom half so he can’t roll over. We tried this. It worked for two nights, and then he figured it out. Dang it!

5. Putting him in his crib in another room because maybe he would sleep better if he couldn’t hear us Mr. V snoring or our moving around. Wrong. I have tried this a few nights but I just get frustrated walking the entire length of our ranch house back and forth a million times. If he’s going to sleep the same in the pack and play or in his crib, I’d rather have him where I don’t have to get out of bed.

6. Permanently attaching him to my chest. At least he’s quiet then.

7. Duct taping the pacifier to his mouth. See: #1, also: child abuse. David knows the paci puts him to sleep, so he rips it out of his mouth constantly.

8. Blanket sleepers. It is already 85 during the day here. I don’t want him to sweat and be miserable, not to mention I probably don’t need another SIDS risk.

9. Nursing every hour during the day in the hopes he wouldn’t get hungry at night. I would honestly do this if I thought it would help. But he’s not going to eat if he’s not hungry, so the chances he would do it are slim to none.

10. Trying to enjoy babyhood and remembering this too shall pass.

Do you have any super tips for me? Cause I have to go … he’s awake. AGAIN. (No, he doesn’t like to nap either.)

Please don’t leave chastising comments about all the reasons I shouldn’t co-sleep, have him tummy sleep, etc. I have a pediatrician to tell me those things and I know the risks.

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Ten Easy Blogging Tips for Beginner Bloggers; Or, What I Wished I Had Known in 2006

When I started blogging in 2006, I didn’t even really know what blogging was. It seemed like a normal progression from those livejournal entries of my high-school days and the written journals I kept before – and after – then. I stopped journaling about the time I started dating my husband, unfortunately.

Most people today know what a blog is; I presume many have read one or even read one or two on a regular basis. So I think people who begin blogging probably do so with a purpose. Is it to inform your friends and family of what’s going on in your life? Voice your opinions for the general masses? Try to make some money?

Edma Pontillon Blogging, after Berthe Morisot

If your purpose falls into those latter two categories, here is some quick advice that I wish I had received five years ago.

Ten Tips for Beginning Bloggers

1. Buy your domain.

I was shocked at Blissdom ’09 to find out that it only costs $10 a year to own your domain. Ten dollars! (Now it appears to be $12 if you want a .com and less if you could deal with a .us, .me, or .org.) It’s super easy to redirect your site to a domain. I am always flabbergasted at the amount of sites that still have “.blogspot” in their URL. “Vanderbiltwife.blogspot.com” just doesn’t have the same ring as VanderbiltWife.com.

If your domain is already taken, you might consider renaming your blog, inserting a number instead of a word, or something similar. Be creative!

2. And while we’re talking titles, choose something with zing. Be original. What makes you uniquely you? What exactly is your blog about?

3. Make yourself accessible. 

Please, please make it easy to e-mail you from your blog’s homepage. See that little “e-mail me” button on the sidebar? I wish everyone had one. Because sometimes I just have a burning question about you or a post that is too long to post in a comment, or maybe too personal.

Using Twitter and starting a Facebook fan page are great, too, if you’re going to use them.

4. Set up a profile on Blogger (whether you use Blogger or not) so it’s easy to comment on Blogger blogs. MAKE YOUR EMAIL VISIBLE. (If you use gmail or other Google apps, you already have an account ready, I think.) Lots of blogs are Blogger-based (like this one), and it’s a pain for a blog author to compose a whole e-mail reply to someone who commented just to realize that their e-mail is not there.

I would respond to nearly all my comments if their e-mails were available! (I try to respond to many as long as that e-mail is visible. PLEASE MAKE IT VISIBLE.) Blogging is about conversation and we authors want to respond!

5. Blog hop. See what other people are doing. Leave comments. See if others want to guest post on your blog, or do a series together, or just chat on e-mail. Follow lots of people on Twitter, if you use it. Share links. Be generous. Be genuine.

6. For the love of Pete, unless you are Ann Voskamp (and that’s still iffy), do not have music auto-playing on your blog.

Suzanne Valadon Blogging, after Lautrec

7. Install Google Analytics. At some point, you might want to see how people are getting to your blog, what they search for to find you, or how many pageviews you are getting. Go ahead and do it now! I wish I had!

8. Apply some simple SEO (Search Engine Optimization.) This is MUCH EASIER to do on the front end than after you have 900 posts. (Not that I would know. Cough, cough.) Tara has two excellent slideshows with easy tips.

9. Link to carnivals. You know Menu Plan Monday, Top Ten Tuesday, Wordless Wednesday? Those are carnivals. Linking will bring you a little traffic and checking out others’ links will expose you to blogs you might never have found otherwise.

10. Don’t underestimate your worth. You probably don’t have The Pioneer Woman‘s traffic, a book deal like MoneySavingMom, and the striking good looks of Jill. That doesn’t mean you should settle for a toothbrush as payment for a review, or bend over backwards for a company that does nothing in return. Determine your worth and stick with it. Only do what you really want to do. And don’t force yourself to write when you don’t want to … the content will never be as good.


If you’re a veteran blogger, what would you share? If you’re a newbie, are these tips helpful at all?

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